Adult women calling teenage girls who happen to be radfems abusers is fucking disgusting
Do you know how much bullkshit gets heaped on teenage girls fucking DAILY and then you call us abusers for getting sick of constantly having gender violently forced on us and call us abusers for being sick of it and wanting out?? It’s obviously not that great of an ideology but come the FUCK on
Your head is so far up your fucking ass that you call a teenage rape victim an abuser
Your political ideology is nothing but garbage and vile and hatred towards women who don’t agree with you and that includes trans women who don’t buy into your garbage
If you really wanted to fucking fight transphobia look at the fucking men who commit violent acts against trans women instead of harassing fucking teenage girls raped literally two days ago who need support and help jesus FUCKING christ
men always say ‘but where is the thing for MEN!?!?’ about anything women have done for women: whether that Nigerian woman training women mechanics, or a shelter, or anything at all
and i used to think it was almost funny in a way because well, look at them, acting like it came from the sky or something - if you want it for men, go and make it for them yourself! women won’t stop you
but it’s worse than that, it’s worse than ‘well women have one so why don’t men?!?!’. they’re totally aware that women have done this for women, and that’s WHY they are saying ‘do it for men’, because they think women exist to do things for men, and if a woman is able to do it for women, she has no excuse not to do it for them. they see it as aggression on her part, because she has something to give and won’t give it to them, and men see women withholding things from men as aggression. and that is why they get aggressive about it. they truly feel that she, by doing something for women, has done something violent to men, so they can retaliate. it’s also why they would rather put their energy into destroying things women have done for women than into doing things themselves for men, because it’s not about what men lack, it’s about what women have and are doing for one another
I hate hypotheticals because I don’t think they’re helpful in understanding the world. But here’s what I will say. When I watched the videos of transkid Jazz with her parents, I couldn’t help reading everyone’s behavior as “Look at how special our son is.” When little girls are celebrated, it’s usually because they’re behaving in a way that pleases everyone - think child beauty pageants, little girls doing gymnastics, etc. When boys are celebrated, it’s more likely because they’re different and unusual. As a culture, we celebrate outcast and outlier males because being an outlier is a male prerogative (think: the anti-hero, the lone wolf, the genius who failed algebra etc).
In contrast, when I’ve seen videos of ftm transkids, the parents seem to be doing a lot less celebration and a lot more justification. There’s a lot more focus on “my child is normal now” and a lot less of the “how special”.
And what I’m saying is that however you want to dress up what’s happening in the language of gender, a person born male is being celebrated for being exceptional and different, and a person born female is being normalized by claims that they are actually male. And when you look at it like that, it seems kind of like status-quo male privilege and status-quo sexism to me!
snowflake especial is a treasure. I never would have noticed this dynamic.
If you think being born into a female body is a privilege, go away, unfollow me, don’t speak to me ever.
is now a bad time to talk about how sex trafficking exploded in eastern europe after the collapse of the USSR since a huge amount of women were instantly out of food/shelter/work or is that inconvenient for liberal feminism
just gonna dedicate this post 2 all the brave and amazing radfems out here. we r so great